When you are ready, change begins
Counselling & Therapy for Adolescents, Adults and Families
English & Afrikaans
In-Person in Gqeberha / Port Elizabeth
Medical Aid Registered

Welcome

Reaching out for support can take time, and often people come when they feel ready for something to change. Whether you’re facing a specific difficulty or simply feel that things could be different, therapy offers a space to understand what you’re going through and to move toward the life you hope for.
I’m Werner van der Westhuizen, a clinical social worker offering and counselling and therapy. I work with adolescents, adults and families, drawing on many years of experience – including deep work with young people – to help people navigate difficulty and build on their strengths.
Werner van der Westhuizen
B.A.(SW), B.A.Hons(Psych), M.A.(Psych), M.A.(Clin.SW)
Registered Speciality in Clinical Social Work (SACSSP)
Advanced Qualification in Hypnotherapy Practice (GHR UK)
BHF Pr. 0266973 SACSSP Reg.: 10-17492
The Shed – Bay Life Centre
60 Villiers Road, Walmer
Gqeberha
What I Offer
Every person’s situation is different, and sessions are shaped around what each client brings. I work with a range of concerns, including:
Adolescents and families – supporting teenagers through the pressures of growing up: managing emotions, navigating relationships, and finding their footing when things at home, school, or within themselves feel difficult. I work alongside parents and families where helpful.
Stress and anxiety – for the worry, tension and overwhelm of everyday life, and for anxiety that has started to get in the way of living fully.
Low mood and depression – a supportive space to work through persistent sadness, loss of motivation, and the heaviness that can settle over daily life.
Trauma and difficult experiences – early support in the aftermath of a distressing event, as well as longer-term recovery for those carrying the effects of past trauma.
Adjustment and life’s demands – support through change, transition, loss, and the ordinary and extraordinary pressures that can leave us stretched.
For therapy nerds – I tend to work from an eclectic perspective, blending what I find to be the most useful from a number of approaches which include cognitive-behavioural approaches, transactional analysis, narrative therapy, solution-focused therapy, Neurolinguistic Programming and family systems therapy. Additionally, I also offer hypnotherapy to selected clients where this is an appropriate adjunct therapy.
Special Interest: Working with Young People
Adolescence is a season of big changes: in the body, in relationships, in how young people see themselves and their place in the world. It can also be a time of real struggle: anxiety, low mood, withdrawal, anger, difficulties at school or at home, or simply a sense that something isn’t right. For parents, it can be painful and confusing to watch, and hard to know how to help.
Working with young people is at the heart of what I do. Over many years, including deep experience in residential child and youth care, I’ve come to understand how teenagers think, what they’re navigating, and how much they’re capable of when they feel genuinely heard. Resilience is a thread that runs through all of my work with young people, and it’s a subject I care about deeply, so much so that I wrote a book on it: Building Resilience in Children: A Concise Introduction for Parents and Caregivers. At its heart is a simple belief: that with the right support, young people can find their footing and grow through what they’re facing.
In practice, this means creating a space where a young person feels safe, respected and taken seriously, not talked down to or fixed. I work at their pace, and where it’s helpful, alongside their parents and family, so that everyone is moving in the same direction. My aim is not only to help with the immediate difficulty, but to help a young person build the resilience and self-understanding that will serve them well beyond our work together.
If you’re worried about your teenager, reaching out is a good first step, and you’re welcome to get in touch to talk about whether I might be able to help.
In the meantime, I’ve created two free resources for parents. My short guide, When Your Teenager Is Anxious, offers practical guidelines for supporting an anxious teenager, you can download it here. And my full book, Building Resilience in Children, is available to download free here.
Hypnotherapy
This practice also offers hypnotherapy, for clients who are well suited to this approach. It’s quite different from the stage hypnosis you may have seen on television: hypnotherapy is a recognised, evidence-based psychological approach that gently uses your own natural ability to focus, helping you address a range of difficulties at a deeper level. It can help with:
- Anxiety and sterss
- Confidence and self-esteem
- Exam and performance nerves
- Unwanted habits and patterns
- and much more.
If you’d like to explore whether hypnotherapy could help with something you’ve been struggling with, do reach out. We’ll talk it through, see whether it’s a good fit for your situation, and decide together on a plan that feels right for you.
Smoking Cessation Programme
Many people who smoke or vape have tried to stop before, often several times, without it lasting. That is not a sign of failure or weakness. Most people who eventually quit for good have made several attempts first, and each one builds toward success.
The international and South African guidelines agree on one core finding: the most effective approach combines behavioural (psychosocial) support with medical treatment. Each works better alongside the other than either does alone. This is the backbone of the programme.
This programme also integrates hypnotherapy as an optional component for clients who wish to use it. It particularly suits those drawn to mind-body approaches, but the programme runs fully without it for clients who prefer to stop using the medical and psychosocial elements alone.
What this practice is (and isn’t)
This is a private therapy practice. I offer psychosocial therapy and counselling to people who want support with emotional, psychological and relationship difficulties.
Although I am a clinical social worker by training, this is not a welfare or statutory service. I do not do child protection or foster care work, court and forensic assessments, custody evaluations, or reports for legal purposes. My focus is entirely on therapy – helping people understand themselves, work through difficulty, and reach the outcomes they want.
If you’re not sure whether I’m the right person to help, you’re welcome to ask, and I’ll gladly point you in the right direction if your needs would be better met elsewhere.
How it works
Sessions are typically one hour, offered in person at my consulting rooms in Walmer, Gqeberha.
Fees are discussed with you upfront and are in line with most medical scheme tariffs. Where you use a medical aid, claims are submitted on your behalf. Note that medical schemes have different criteria for deciding whether to settle claims, and it is important to verify this right at the start.
Taking the first step
Deciding to begin is often the hardest part. If you feel the time might be right, I’d be glad to hear from you.
If you’ve been considering counselling – for anxiety, stress, a difficult time, or simply feeling stuck – I offer a free, no-pressure introductory chat (phone, whatsapp or Zoom) to help you decide whether it’s right for you. It’s a brief, friendly conversation: no commitment, no cost, just a chance to talk about what you’re going through and whether I might be able to help.
The easiest way to reach me is via Whatsapp on the number below.
